"She refused to be bored, chiefly because she wasn't boring." Zelda Fitzgerald

Showing posts with label snapshot. Show all posts
Showing posts with label snapshot. Show all posts

Wednesday, February 9, 2011

My First Birth

Had one of the most fantastically inspiring nights of my life last night. Nutmeg and Carpenter Man's sweet second baby was ushered into the world and I had the great honor of attending the birth (can words express what kind of a friend-gift that is???? I think not.)  at the side of the midwife who delivered most of own children. I cannot even describe to you all the sheer, scream-at-the-top-of-your-lungs feeling of peak experience I felt walking out into the crisp, cold February air re-playing the visual in my mind's eye of Baby's placid, buttermilk-velvet profile, slipping into his mother's waiting arms and then being cradled to her face for first kisses.

Life is peppered with a few crystal moments and I knew--standing there on the curb, helping my mentor load her birthing supplies back into her trunk and then hugging her under the golden halo of the streetlights---that I had lived one of those great times. A time that will always be hung in space as significant.

So, to better remember, there on the sidewalk at 1:45AM, I pulled out my camera, squeezed my cheek against hers and held it out and snapped a memory. A little salute to one of my heroes.

So, here's to you, Martha, I feel so blessed to have knelt at the side of a laboring mother, next to you and to have peered over your shoulder as you worked and helped you lug your bags out to the car. I know that yours are big shoes, and I hope someday I'll be able to keep a pair on as I slosh down the road of midwifery. You're super inspiring.



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Monday, November 15, 2010

Ru Snapshot

Today the beginning of a new bevy of lists. Kids tastes and interests, even their most passionate ones, change like the wind. At the moment...this is a snapshot of my oldest son.

Ru Likes
avocados
(he and I scoop avocados out of the shells with spoons together)
sweets
forklifts
 chocolate milk
"fixers" (repairmen of all stripes)
taking pictures 
skateboarding and skateboarders
pudding
Aunt Gigi's apple cake
 buses
baking things
dinosaurs
farmers
being read to
(we're working on Little House In The Big Woods)
sausages of all kinds
plain cheese pizza (I am mortified)
weed whackers and leaf blowers
dogs, of all kinds
Darth Vader
salad
helping A take out the garbage
marbles
painting (both walls and watercolors)
St. Marcellin cheese
snow
having a knife at dinner
drinking water
his flip-flops 
(he's very sad about the non flip-flop winter footwear custom)
salt on his food....lots of salt
mopping the floor
washing dishes
peanut butter and jelly sandwiches
Ranch dressing




Ru Can't Stand

tomato sauce on his pasta
fish of any kind
taking a nap
having his food cut up for him
long socks
zipping his coat up 
(he prefers to wear the whole thing flapping open, hanging by the hood from his forehead)
soup
having anyone in the room while he's dressing
having anyone think he's "dumb" (his current paranoia)
mangoes
waiting for winter
being put on the spot
dried pineapple
pants that are too short


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