"She refused to be bored, chiefly because she wasn't boring." Zelda Fitzgerald

Showing posts with label notebook. Show all posts
Showing posts with label notebook. Show all posts

Tuesday, January 4, 2011

In Which She Is Resolute

Happy New Year to everyone! I'm leisurely about my well-wishing, taking my sweet time getting around to acknowledging the calendar flip ...why panic...we have 365 days to toot our noise-makers. The holiday madness largely behind us, we find ourselves here, blinking at the crisp, white, slate of a newborn January. I kind of love January. I love fresh starts, I love stillness after madness (no holidays all month anyone??? WOOHOO!) and even the sharp winter chill feels a little invigorating. After all, we've hardly had time to enjoy the gentle sifting of a slow snow shower, try out our snuggly Christmas mittens and scarves or go stumping around frostily blowing dragon breath with our giggling two-year-olds. The year is young! Hooray!

If you know me, you know that one of my favorite things about the new year is a fresh and teetering stack full of resolutions. People always tell me that they *cough cough* "Don't really do that resolution thing themselves. It's so depressing and who really keeps their resolutions anyhow!" I don't buy it people. Really? Your plan for making sure you can't fail is that you have decided never to have goals? A pulled out his list of last year's resolutions recently and sighed exclaiming that he hadn't "done very well." It turned out on closer examination that he had made stabs at and some progress on most all of them and had roundly succeeded  on a few to boot! I told him to stop being his own worst critic and appreciate all the success he'd had instead.

An attitude adjustment that allows you be pleased with any amount of progress instead of only perfect completion is helpful, so is a goal making tutorial...practical, yea modest goals are best. Instead of resolving to "eat healthy food" try changing it to "eating something raw every day + joining a CSA." Concrete is good.

Anyhow...all that to say: Here are My 2011 Resolutions!

  • Shop for Christmas presents in July
  • Get back to my pre-Nib weight
  • Get up early 5 days a week (so as to have a quiet space before the hordes are up and buzzing)
  • Keep a dream journal next to my bed
  • Record all my books on GoodReads again
  • Start a Housekeeper's Binder
  • Buy a jasmine plant and get it to bloom
  • Switch our kids to a local pediatrician (I am sick of driving any more than I have to)
  • Call both sets of grandparents on set days, every week
  • Host my first real kid birthday party  (Ru, my socialite turns five in April which will be the perfect time)
  • Do yoga 5 days a week in the early mornings (maybe 7...we'll see...and also consider taking up running in warm weather)
  • Follow a sport (am considering soccer at the moment, although American football has an allure too)
  •  Buy my bees


What's on your list?
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Friday, February 5, 2010

What We Want In A House

So, now that I've finished my collages, you get to see my notebook that I'll be taking out on Sunday to our first house appointments. We're going to be seeing houses with four different realtors before coming home to collapse and watch The Super Bowl. Several of you wanted to know more about my house hunting process and my criteria.

First, lest I sound like a blooming know-it-all....I have indeed purchased a house before. We owned a house for a year that we thought we were going to be in for five or so when we first moved to Connecticut. Job shifts forced us to sell and from then on we were back in apartments.

A is an apartment kind of guy. He doesn't collect tools, he doesn't fuss over his lawn, he doesn't like to shovel snow, he's not into cleaning gutters and he kind of likes not knowing how the leaves all disappear off the lawn in the fall. He likes automatic systems, reserved parking spaces and calling up the landlord and ordering in his home repairs. I hate landlords, and apartments and reserved parking spaces. I want chickens, a clothesline, a private backyard where the boys can play football, a pantry to stack my shining canned goods in August, and a sense of ownership. I want to know that if we hate the flooring...we can rip it out and that nobody cares what color I paint the bathroom. A and I have our differences. But, as your family grows it becomes clearer and clearer that home ownership has its strong points for lots of kinds of people. And so A came around...(like he always said he would) and now we're planning out our strategy for picking a nest.

The common factors that are driving both of us towards our own place now?

1.) More space. Room for storage, toys, instruments, beds, extra babies...etc.
2.) A quiet study space where A can work from home undisturbed. Its really hard when he's at home for the day but the computer is in the living room.
3.) A nice lawn to romp on. A is excited about boy sports, I'm dreaming of picnics and outdoors watercolor painting.
4.) The ability to do what we want to our own home in the way of improvements. You can't order the landlord to put in nicer bathroom fixtures or more insulation just because you'd like it.
5.) Room for our books. We would like a room that we can just wall-to-wall with bookcases or at least more rooms where bookcases will fit. We have a lot of books.
6.) Some little space where we can tuck our guests when they come to visit. We want visitors!
7.) A more spacious kitchen. We both like to cook and eat and we want room to store our tools, food and cookbooks and then space for rolling out pie crusts, making Christmas cookies together, and cutting out homemade ravioli.

So, that's the stuff we have in common. There's lots more from my point-of-view but that gives you the gist of what we both agree on that has us hunting.

Here's a peek at my notebook:









And here's our list of Wants, Bonuses and Avoids to give you a peek into how we're weighing houses. Most of these criteria are mine (I am after all the homebody in the family so, I care a lot about these things.) and I have to say, I'm way pickier about houses than A is. *wince* I try not to let it bother me too much and I don't think it truly means that I'm a whiny, demanding, greedy home-buyer...I just want to buy carefully, and I care a lot about what makes a home.


Wants:

    * At least one acre of land (although truth be told I'm willing to consider .5 an acre and up if the rest of the house looks really appealing)
    * Sun and shade (in the yard...this is for gardening)
    * Three bedrooms (although four or more is what I'm really shooting for)
    * Private master bath
    * At least two full baths
    * Bathrooms on each level
    * Open kitchen floor plan
    * Ample counter space
    * Pantry/larder storage area
    * Safe distance from the road
    * Good commuting possibilities (direct connection to the metro within an hour of the city)
    * History and character
    * Master on the same level as kids rooms
    * Room for a clothes line
    * Space for: sewing, sleeping, eating, music, office, outdoors equipment, storage, lots of books, plants, homeschooling, boys and girls, private spaces, parental romance
    * Air conditioning
    * Nice Interior Light

Bonuses:

    * Fireplace
    * Room for a chest freezer
    * Root cellar type storage
    * Water on the property (streams, rivers or lakes...not plumbing)
    * Hardwood floors
    * Nearby grocery store (small is fine…even a convenience store)
    * Other young families in the neighborhood
    * Greenhouse
    * Big southern exposure windows
    * Great insulation
    * New appliances
    * Gas stove
    * Clothes Line (already in place)
    * Nice plantings (read historic plantings)
    * Central Air
    * Granite Counter-tops
    * Big porch
    * Slow traffic on the road out front

 Things We Don't Want:

    * Mold or musty smells
    * Structural damage
    * Leaks
    * Swimming pool
    * Ranch or raised ranch architecture
    * Central Vacuums

 And then just for a little extra information....here are some of the little tidbits about a house that would likely attract us.

 We like:

    * Stone
    * Tudor architecture
    * Sidewalks for walking
    * Wood Siding
    * Pretty "designed" water features
    * Expansive lawns w/ a little woods
    * Longer driveways
    * Pre-existing gardens
    * Cottages, Colonials, Cape Cods, and Saltboxes

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Wednesday, February 3, 2010

The Great House Hunt

Today was an errand day so most of it I was running around town, dragging the kids in and out of places of business, buckling and unbuckling and the at the end of the day, filling the gas tank to make up for it all.

BUT...this afternoon there was a small window of time when I was home...(just long enough to gulp lunch down and pull off naps)and today I started putting together my house hunting notebook!
(an apartment we considered when hunting for this one)

I took a small three-ring binder and filled it with the Realtor.com profiles of all the houses I am interested in and separated them into "Already Drove By And Looked At Them"(Further Action Needed)and "Still Need To Drive By." I also categorized them by town within those sections so that I can make sure to find all the houses in the same area when I have the next chance to do drive bys. I have been taking notes on the back of the Realtor.com profiles as I see houses to make sure I remember my thoughts on each place and if needed (say a profile doesn't show the front of the house at all) I take photos that can supplement the photos in the profile.
Today I also added a three ring notebook pocket to hold post-its, three pens (extras for realtors and A in case we need them) and two highlighters for noting the good and bad stats on a house profile. A while ago I sat down and brainstormed the things we: Want to Have, Would Consider Bonuses and Want to Avoid in a prospective house.
 (one of the houses I looked at last week, we hope to see the inside this weekend!)

The last thing on my list is to make a collage for the cover...hence the stack of decorating magazines you see above! I plan to peruse them for dream-home ideas and inspiration and then take scissors to the pages and hack and cut to my heart's content until I have two beautiful 10X13 collages to cover the front and back of my new notebook.
(a mountaintop chalet we saw in Switzerland)

Thus armed and inspired...I plan to try to find us a home of our own this year...perhaps even this spring!

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